The Truth About Boys


My boys eat fish sticks or chicken nuggets at least four nights a week. They pick their noses and were born with the innate sense that farts are hilarious. The house is always cluttered, there are always crumbs in the seats of the car and sticky fingerprints on the windows. Sometimes they like to read books; most of the time books make good frisbees or weapons. Every toy in the house is missing at least one peice, making your brother cry is good entertainment and timeout is usually worth whatever you did to get there. Welcome to the Chretien house. Mothers have this constant voice in their head telling them that they could do better, their house could be cleaner, their waist smaller, and their kids more polite. I fall into this trap almost daily, and I am slowly learning that my success not measured by these standards. I may not be the perfect mom, but I know that my boys are happy. They know that they are loved, and they love each other. All day long they will fight over the same toy, the same book, the same spot on the couch. But, when evening comes, and they have sleepy eyes, jammied feet, and sweet smelling hair damp from bathtime, I know that we must be doing something right. This blog is dedicated to two sweet boys learning, playing, growing, and finding their place in the world, and to their mommy learning how to guide them.



Thursday, November 10, 2011

A Saltwater Memory

The first morning on vacation we awoke to an amber glow filtering through our westward-facing window.  Our room was chilly, and we were grateful for our down comforter cacoon.  At home, we would wake up each morning to an alarm, and we would hit snooze several times until finally grumbling our way out of bed.  Here, being greeted by the California sun, we couldn't wait to get out into the cool morning air.  My husband, two kids and I all piled on cozy slippers and hoodies and opened the door to greet the day.  The first thing I felt was a blast of cool, salty air washing over my face and filling my lungs.  The smell always makes my heart swell with contentment and yet the feeling is slightly tainted with knowing that I will have to leave soon. 

We walked to the edge of our deck to watch the waves crash onto the shore.  The mist from the furious water gently kissed our faces.  I watched my boys get their first glimpse of the ocean that I love so much.  Disregarding the coolness of the morning, we took off our socks and sunk our toes into the soft sand.  Our home is never quiet, and this was one moment where we all stood and took in the beauty of nature and the pleasure of being together on this gorgeous day, and not a word was spoken.  The silence was broken by Aiden spotting the sleek grey backs of a pod of dolphins breaking the surface of the water.  At that moment, creatures of the sea became a real thing to my two year old, and not just pictures in a book.  The sun was rising higher, burning away the blanket of fog that had covered the peninsula, and the beach was coming to life.  With each wave that washed up on the shore we could see the glistening, speckled backs of sand crabs digging frantically to bury themselves back in the sand.  Skittish sandpipers and boisterous seagulls danced with the ebbing water, getting close enough to nab a snack and then skittering away before the water could touch their feet.  We saw pelicans floating lazily in the air and then diving suddenly to scoop fish out of the water.  In the distance, we could hear the bark of sea lions as they sunned themselves on an abandoned pier, it's pillars covered with barnacles, starfish, and other living scenery.

2 comments:

  1. You painted a wonderful picture. It was like I was almost there. Thank you.

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